tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63029391287243612672024-03-13T01:28:28.676-05:00The Unplanned HomeschoolerLearning alongside our kids, picking and choosing our way through curricula, figuring out what works and what doesn't, and having a lot of fun as we go. That's what homeschooling is all about!Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.comBlogger174125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-72510588418958537652022-04-13T20:07:00.001-05:002022-04-13T20:20:24.346-05:00Gilbert Gottfried, Myotonic Dystrophy and the Unplanned HomeschoolerGilbert Gottfried, well-known comedian and actor with the unmistakable voice, died from complications of myotonic dystrophy type 2. According to his publicist, his death was caused by ventricular tachycardia, an arrhythmia associated with myotonic dystrophy. This rare disease, which affects only about 1 in 10,000 people, is a form of muscular dystrophy which, according to the <a href="https://www.myotonic.org/memory-gilbert-gottfried" target="_blank">Myotonic Dystrophy Foundation</a> causes a host of "varied and complex symptoms, including skeletal muscle problems, excessive daytime sleepiness, early cataracts and heart, breathing, digestive, hormonal, speech, swallowing, diabetic, immune, vision, and cognitive difficulties." <div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyMqwvDCgNjlhlp5hEYaXGT6fE6Ti7QN0S-ySP2Zmd8jdcJR9Ut3GfdWpXGpJYyWnSrPDJWwpmuFjmlDhRU6BMzwLdUcDCcytzfPz4gaWOjcfzzr5VePObk8xsDdp_idDaV3Rmi_VYRTpPsHdKXDgyeC3Mhc5ATRLXZTAjKfnbifNfT52K9qvgT7RPJA/s940/Gilbert%20Gottfried.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="788" data-original-width="940" height="268" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyMqwvDCgNjlhlp5hEYaXGT6fE6Ti7QN0S-ySP2Zmd8jdcJR9Ut3GfdWpXGpJYyWnSrPDJWwpmuFjmlDhRU6BMzwLdUcDCcytzfPz4gaWOjcfzzr5VePObk8xsDdp_idDaV3Rmi_VYRTpPsHdKXDgyeC3Mhc5ATRLXZTAjKfnbifNfT52K9qvgT7RPJA/s320/Gilbert%20Gottfried.png" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div>This week may be the first time you've heard of myotonic dystrophy. To my knowledge, no other celebrity or well-known person has been diagnosed with the disease. Because it is so rare, you may never even meet anyone who has it. But I know it well, because my husband and at least two of our three kids are afflicted. </div><div><br /></div><div>I first learned about myotonic dystrophy a few years ago, when my husband's brother called to let him know he had been diagnosed. My husband had been showing symptoms for some time, too, but we didn't know what was going on. Both of my husband's parents died relatively young, but we're pretty sure that the disease came from his mother, who had mobility issues and a lot of other health problems in the decade before she passed. </div><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">My kids tested positive</span></h3><div><br /></div><div>Around this same time my older daughter was going through a barrage of medical tests, because of pain, fatigue, hypermobility and a myriad of other symptoms she had been dealing with practically since birth. She had already been diagnosed with Ehlers Danlos syndrome, a connective tissue disorder, but that didn't explain all her symptoms, so we were traveling the state visiting specialists in genetics, neurology, rheumatology, cardiology and more. I mentioned to the geneticist that her uncle had tested positive for myotonic dystrophy, so they ran another test looking specifically for the mutation. Just before she turned 18, my daughter was officially diagnosed with the same disease.</div><div><br /></div><div>The geneticist suggested we test my son, even though he did not have all the same symptoms as his twin sister. We knew that because myotonic dystrophy is caused by what is called an autosomal dominant mutation, there was a 50 percent chance of him having the disease, too, but we were hopeful. A week later his test came back positive, too.</div><div><br /></div><div>My youngest has not yet been tested, as the geneticist insists it is better to wait until she is close to 18 and can decide for herself if she wants to know. But she and her brother were both also diagnosed with Ehlers Danlos syndrome, so it is impossible to tell if her pain and fatigue are due to that or if she is also showing early signs of myotonic dystrophy. She, too, has a 50 percent chance of having myotonic dystrophy so it is just a matter of waiting to see how the test turns out. </div><div><br /></div><div>There is no treatment for this disease. There is no cure. It is a chronic disease that slowly robs you of your mobility and puts you at high risk for many other complications, some of which can be life threatening and many of which contribute to daily pain. There is some new hope in the form of CRISPR gene editing trials which have shown some promise with similar disease, at least in mice. </div><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #fce5cd;">Homeschooling with myotonic dystrophy</span></h3><div><br /></div><div>My twins are 20 now, and are finishing their first year as full-time college students. They've been living with their diagnoses for a couple of years. It hasn't been easy. Myotonic dystrophy wuld be tricky enough on its own, but combining a muscular disorder with a hypermobile connective tissue disorder in the form of Ehlers Danlos syndrome is just awful. Faulty muscles and faulty joints combine to cause tremendous pain and require enormous energy. </div><div><br /></div><div>Living with this pair of rare diseases means looking at life differently. As we wrapped up the twins' final year of high school, we worked closely with the Disability Services office on the university campus to make sure they were able to succeed in their concurrent classes. We spent a considerable amount of time considering potential majors and what sort of careers they could maintain long term, even if they are in a wheelchair full time well before retirement age. </div><div><br /></div><div>My twins can't party like average college students. They've been warned not to drink alcohol or even consume energy drinks because elevated liver enzymes can be a problem with myotonic dystophy. They've had to be extra careful during the pandemic because their disease can cause respiratory and cardiac complications. And they have to work extra hard to maintain good grades because they are on scholarships, they both intend to pursue graduate school and if they blow their academic standing they would have an extremely hard time finding work they could physically do while trying to finish school.</div><div><br /></div><div>I may not be homeschooling my twins anymore, but supporting them through college is still important. They decided to stay home and attend the local state university because the campus is smaller and easier to navigate, and because they would not have to live in the dorms. Parking is still an issue sometimes, though, especially when the weather is bad, and their schedules don't always match up so I spend a lot of time helping one or both of them get to class. </div><div><br /></div><h3 style="text-align: left;"><b><span style="color: #fce5cd;">Looking to the future</span></b></h3><div><br /></div><div>The cardiac complication that Gilbert Gottfried died from can often be addressed with a pacemaker. It is recommended that people with mytonic dystrophy get evaluated regularly for complications with their hearts. They also have to stay on top of other health issues. Young adults can be resistant to making their own appointments and taking care of their medical needs, but the only way to live a full life with myotonic dystrophy is to be very proactive in your care. I am working to encourage this with my twins, and even with their dad. </div><div><br /></div><div>I am scared of what the future holds for my kids, but I am oddly encouraged by the life of Gilbert Gottfried. His career evolved as he got older, and presumably lost a lot of his strength and mobility. He pivoted to more voice work and less stand up, but he lived his whole life as an entertainer, doing what he loved in one way or another. </div><div><br /></div><div>I am still doing everything I can to help all three of my kids open doors to opportunities to pursue what they love. Their paths may be limited due to their disabilities, but there are always ways to find what you want and need in life if you stay open to the possibilities. </div><div><br /></div>Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0Oklahoma, USA35.0077519 -97.0928776.6975180638211569 -132.249127 63.317985736178848 -61.936627tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-12975572047360282562020-09-02T08:00:00.002-05:002020-09-02T08:00:08.833-05:00How is virtual school going?<p> Hey there! I see you, parents of newly virtual schooling kids. I know a whole lot of you, maybe most of you, would have never chosen this option for your children's education if not for the pandemic. Maybe you are doing virtual school because that is all that is offered right now in your district, or maybe because your family has one or more high risk members you want to protect. Perhaps you are out of work, or working from home, and you just wanted to give this whole school-at-home thing a try. Or maybe you've been toying with the idea of homeschooling for a while, and this seemed like a good way to see if it might be a fit for you and your kids without committing to doing everything on your own.</p><p>Whatever the reason you've chosen virtual school, I hope you and your kids have a fantastic school year!</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIm4iGkuIwN_lpjCVvZz29nan3qp0MJ-fSnvXt4F0Krjhmpk9SediWkXihlHllkRY0uvwB3XBy0kjj9zc0TnQFgeN2ktzVhfgZtYrH0amywrk9KcKhdBsHjjisf48KaLGUmP5wAK2mENe5/s940/how+is+virtual+school+going.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="788" data-original-width="940" height="430" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIm4iGkuIwN_lpjCVvZz29nan3qp0MJ-fSnvXt4F0Krjhmpk9SediWkXihlHllkRY0uvwB3XBy0kjj9zc0TnQFgeN2ktzVhfgZtYrH0amywrk9KcKhdBsHjjisf48KaLGUmP5wAK2mENe5/w512-h430/how+is+virtual+school+going.png" width="512" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>Our family has never done virtual school, although believe me, I was tempted by the idea of it when we first decided to homeschool. One of the main reasons I decided to do traditional homeschooling instead of virtual public school was that my older two kids were still quite young. I didn't think teaching first grade to my twins would be so tough, and at that time I really only expected to homeschool for a couple of years, until my youngest could start pre-K. </p><p>Another factor was our slow and unreliable internet at that time. Rural areas and small towns really are so far behind when it comes to internet service, and that is a huge hurdle, I think, to providing a quality virtual school experience to students across the board. </p><p>Anyway, we made the decision to homeschool instead, so I have never actually had the experience of virtual school. I have a good friend who is an experienced virtual school teacher, and know many families who have been happily virtual schooling for years, so I know it can work well. I've also known families who had poor experiences with different virtual school platforms, so I realize it doesn't always work well for every student.</p><p>If you have chosen virtual school for your kids, I really do hope that you have a great experience. If it is not what you had hoped, I do have a couple of suggestions, having worked with hundreds of homeschooling and virtual schooling families over the years. </p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Communicate</span></h3><p>It is extremely important that you communicate regularly with your virtual instructors, and that you communicate well. Be specific about issues you are having, and don't wait until the last minte to reach out. If you are not able to form a cooperative relationship with your child's instructor, and you feel that your child's education is at risk, please reach out to someone higher up the chain. You may be able to switch instructors, or even enroll in a different virtual school or switch to homeschooling if problems cannot be resolved.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Define your goals</span></h3><p>It is important, when deciding which path to take, that you carefully define your goals. I am, obviously, very much in favor of homeschooling. But it is not the right path for every family. If your goal is to get back into the neighborhood school classroom as soon as possible, particularly if your child will be in high school in the coming year, homeschooling may actually throw them behind, because many high schools refuse to accept homeschool credits from students who are transferring.</p><p>If your goal is to preserve your child's eligibility to participate in their local school's extracurricular activities, you may want to carefully look at whether switching to a different virtual school would take away those opportunities. Be aware, though, that there are often homeschool sports, music and other extracurricular options available if you should decide to leave the virtual school, and in some states, homeschooled kids must still be allowed to participate in extracurriculars at their local public school. </p><p>Your goal may be to simply provide the best education possible for your child, regardless of the format. In this case, homeschooling may be an awesome option for your family if you find that virtual school is too limited or too demanding of screen time, or just isn't a good fit for whatever reason.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Virtual school isn't homeschool</span></h3><p>Be aware that in most cases, <a href="https://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2014/09/why-virtual-public-school-is-not.html">virtual public school is not considered homeschool</a>, even though it is done in the same place and may use many of the same resources. This is true regardless of whether you are doing virtual school through your local school district or through an online public charter school. Both virtual public school and homeschool are valid educational alternatives, but families have very different rights and responsibilities depending on which they choose.</p><p>For those who are embarking on your first semester of virtual school, I wish you the best. I hope your children have skilled teachers who are able to adapt to the format easily, and that they are able to enjoy each and every one of their classes. </p><p>If that is not the case, and you do find yourself considering homeschooling, either for the year or forever, please reach out to experienced homeschoolers online or in your community for support. And check out my book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WEEULBS">The Unplanned Homeschooler: My Disorganized Path to Homeschooling Success</a>, available free for a limited time on Amazon. You do not have to take on this venture alone. </p>Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-59858077232980701682020-09-01T02:00:00.005-05:002020-09-01T15:01:40.328-05:00Get my book, FREE for a limited time!<p>Raise your hand if you didn't exactly plan to be doing school at home.</p><p>You might guess from the title of my blog, and my first book, my journey into homeschooling wasn't a planned excursion, either. No, my family wasn't pushed out of the classroom by a global pandemic, but we did end up homeschooling largely due to circumstances beyond our control. From the overcrowded local elementary schools and the abysmal lunchtime policies to the fact that public school just wasn't meeting my children's educational needs, we found ourselves embarking into strange territory.</p><p>You are not alone. And right now, for a very limited time, you can get my book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WEEULBS">The Unplanned Homeschooler: My Disorganized Path to Homeschooling Success</a> for free! Read about my trials, my errors, the tears, the laughter, and some of the amazing learning adventures that convinced me homeschooling was the right choice for my kids. </p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WEEULBS" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="450" data-original-width="810" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJry8YhaQIgpoTZl9Qw2iCZBRf1KmJ-cTr08y4rD_LJbFbRlqv_mtg5mxx9qeJDYTP7LvBltYLur_vCrzb8FPJ-j7aw4Ku9l0nPRSEjYqcmhPgg8Onq2YZJP8qdbWmDRX2rbjP1vPEoLu1/s640/The+Unplanned+Homeschooler+Free.png" width="640" /></a></div><p><br /></p><p>I won't say that because we did it, you can too. But if you are thinking about homeschooling, and you're maybe a little scared or nervous about wading in, get my book now and see what those first years were like for us. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WEEULBS">Click here</a> to get your copy today!</p>Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-23977590189406126332020-08-31T15:17:00.001-05:002020-08-31T15:17:23.776-05:00Raising up resilience<p>It has been a while since I've written anything for my blog. The stories I wanted to write didn't seem like all mine to tell. Such is often the case when you are writing about the lives and experiences of your children, especially if your childen have disabilities. Although the things my kids were going through affected me as well, it still didn't feel right to talk about publicly unless and until they seemed ready to share. But like many homeschooling moms, I've discovered that in spite of challenges, I have been raising amazing, resilient young people and they are excited to pursue their goals in whatever manner they can.</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicM2hVTRIbQ7Jq6Ym7BvhigAE7cL4BqRw1zJU1uanfcteobtb6tgsWamEtzwRH1d4KBy3nAZqJobIARE7iDfM34Q0oqRJ9HdARg3W9MiaGEBfJW2l3ekMxQaHb2eJ7Rv8Sa4WINmPwd0fR/s940/Raising+up+Resilience.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="788" data-original-width="940" height="430" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicM2hVTRIbQ7Jq6Ym7BvhigAE7cL4BqRw1zJU1uanfcteobtb6tgsWamEtzwRH1d4KBy3nAZqJobIARE7iDfM34Q0oqRJ9HdARg3W9MiaGEBfJW2l3ekMxQaHb2eJ7Rv8Sa4WINmPwd0fR/w512-h430/Raising+up+Resilience.png" width="512" /></a></div><br /><p>I have three children. My twins, 18, and their little sister, who will be 13 this month. Yes, I am about to be a mom of three teens! This is an exciting time in our lives. The twins are seniors this year. They started concurrent enrollment classes at the local university last semester, and are taking more classes there this fall as we concentrate on applying for admission and scholarships for their freshman year. My son is leaning toward a career in the medical field, and my daughter is interested in finding her niche in the entertainment industry. My youngest is entering middle school and has interests as varied as any you might imagine. </p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Dealing with the pandemic</span></h3><p>This year has not been too difficult for us, as far as dealing with the pandemic is concerned. Homeschooling had already prepared us well for learning successfully at home, and although we all missed some of the social aspects of our routine, at least the educational components of our lives weren't thrown suddenly into chaos. </p><p>Actually, taking the extra precautions we've needed to take, primarily due to my younger daughter's heart condition, has given us something of a season of rest. You see, before Covid-19 arrived on the scene, we were exceedingly busy. We had appointments scheduled multiple days each week, many of which were more than an hour away because we live in a small town. Some appointments took us hours away from home, and all had to be scheduled around the twins' college classes. </p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Facing tough diagnoses</span></h3><p>The last couple of years were spent in what seemed like a rolling snowball of of doctors and tests. My kids, all three of them, were preemies and had been dealing with mysterious issues since they were born. The twins qualified for speech, occupational and physical therapy in preschool, but we didn't know the underlying reason for their challenges. I've spent their whole lives looking for answers, but it wasn't until they were in their teens that things started to come together. Without going too much into their diagnoses, I will simply say after seeing two geneticists and multiple other specialists, we finally had definitive answers, and they were discouraging. </p><p>It is not easy to receive life-altering diagnoses, not as the patient and not as their parent. I think having an imposed break in all the appointments, due to the pandemic, gave us all time to catch our breath. The kids' medical conditions aren't going to go away, and whatever poking and prodding and physical therapy and other work needs to be done will still be waiting when we're ready to resume. But for now, it is good to have time to focus on other things, like their college applications and dreams for the future.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Still chasing their dreams</span></h3><p>Homeschooling has helped me to raise overcomers. My older daughter has spent a lot of time researching different jobs in the film industry, and various paths to the type of career she wants. She's spent time thinking about the limitations she might face, whether due to her mobility or tolerance of heat or cold, for instance. The flexibility she has experienced as a homeschooler has given her the ability to envision different ways to accomplish her goals.</p><p>My son's diagnoses seemed to light a fire under him. I'd done my best to open as many doors as possible throughout his education, making sure that he learned the basics and had plenty of opportunities to study subjects of interest, but he'd been pretty committed to "Undeclared" as his major until this year. Recently he has started to take a hard look at the type of career he really wants, and what sort of labor he will be able to physically do over the long haul, and he's working hard to make a plan and go for it.</p><p>My little one, who was born with a heart defect and has dealt with overcoming disability her entire life, is watching her older siblings as they deal with the challenges they face now and those that will come. She won't be tested for the same disorder until she is older and can consent on her own. Part of me just wants to know now, but I understand that it needs to be her decision. Whatever happens, she's one of the most resilient people I have ever known, and I have no doubt she will find her way.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #f9cb9c;">Homeschooling made a difference</span></h3><p>I'm not sure if my kids would have been as ready to face their challenges if I had left them in public school. By the time they finished kindergarten, the twins were already dealing with setbacks. My daughter felt like a failure on the playground, and was going hungry from the limited time she had to eat lunch. My son was drowning in a classroom that was so mismatched to his learning style he seemed doomed to fall through the cracks. Homeschooling allowed them to learn in ways that suited them, and to succeed in ways that they might never have discovered in an overcrowded school.</p><p>If you are reading this, you are probably already considering homeschooling. I encourage you to give it some serious thought, especially if you are dealing with a medically complex child. Every child has dreams, even if some of them may come with limitations. Homeschooling may be just the thing to help your child build a legacy of success and gain the courage to explore all the possibilities that await them.</p>Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-17405801721763005702018-09-10T15:37:00.000-05:002018-09-10T15:37:40.773-05:00A raw, honest glimpse into the journey through years of infertility - 'Hail Mary for Peanut' review Infertility is a condition like no other I know. There is the pain, the longing, the anguish of yearning for a child and feeling like a failure, all the while dealing with the intrusive nature of treatment options and the well-meaning but often hurtful opinions of family and friends. And of course, the unending feeling of standing in an unmoving line while others inexplicably get their turns. Will your turn ever come?<br />
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Yes, I've been there. For nearly a decade before my twins were born, and then several more years before unexpectedly being blessed with our youngest. I know this journey, all too well. That's why, when I saw a fellow homeschooling mom mention her new book, Hail Mary for Peanut, on Facebook, I knew I needed to review it. </div>
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Heather Nelson's book, part memoir and part advice, is so raw and honest, it took me by surprise. She didn't just talk about the yearning, she dove deep into the feelings of sadness, anger, inadequacy and loss. She brought to life the fears and the fatigue, the hopes and the frustrations of a years-long battle with infertillity and the effects it can have on a woman and on a marriage. </div>
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It's been more than 17 years now since I finally got the positive result on the blood test that assured me I was, indeed, pregnant at last with my twins. But reading this book took me back, all the way to the years when I prayed desperately day after day for God to give me a baby, and felt so alone.</div>
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I wish I'd had a book like this when I was going through it all. I knew other women who'd dealt with infertility. My own mother suffered through the better part of a decade before I was born. But, I can't tell you how wonderful it would have been to have been able to curl up in my bed and read these words of sisterhood from a woman who wasn't afraid to tell it all. </div>
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If you know any woman who is going through infertility, get her this book! It may be the lifeline she needs, just to know that she is truly not alone in any of what she is feeling, and that there is hope, no matter where her journey leads. </div>
Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-85314602423947878652018-08-01T14:21:00.000-05:002018-08-01T14:21:11.434-05:00Learning Tangent Homeschool Magazine named one of education's top 15 publications worldwide!Four years ago, I submitted a pitch to write for a relatively new magazine in the homeschool market. It was an inclusive magazine, open to homeschoolers of all types, and completely free of advertising connected to the Common Core. I'd read some of the back issues, and was excited to join the team of writers, but little did I know how far Learning Tangent Homeschool Magazine would come in such a short time.<br />
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Today, Learning Tangent was <a href="https://www.learningtangent.com/learning-tangent-named-feedspot-top-15-education-mags/">named one of the top 15 education magazines in the world</a>. Not just homeschool magazines, mind you. The top 15 of all education magazines worldwide, thousands of them!<br />
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I'm so proud to have spent the last four years with Learning Tangent Homeschool Magazine! It feels great to be part of such a great group of writers, and of course, kudos to our editor and the founder of the magazine, the talented Gail Nelson. She's given us the opportunity to reach out to so many readers and make a difference in the lives of homeschoolers around the world. Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-76683932098628216752018-07-31T12:00:00.000-05:002018-08-06T18:42:11.241-05:00Don't overload yourself this yearIn the weeks leading up to a new school year, many homeschooling parents become anxious about how much their kids will accomplish. Will their little ones learn enough to stay on track with their peers? Will their teens earn enough credits to graduate as planned?<br>
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Believe me, this is something you'll want to avoid, not just this year, but in the years to come, as subjects get tougher and the lessons get longer. I've seen what homeschool burnout can do to a mom, I've even felt it a time or two, and it's no good for you or any of your family.<br>
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Whether you agree or disagree with Disney's decision to terminate Gunn, this situation presents a unique opportunity to discuss some tough topics with your kids, which is exactly what we spent time doing at my house last night. Here are some of the most important things that your child should learn from the James Gunn situation.<br />
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When you are young, it can feel liberating to engage in behavior that is shocking or disturbing to others. And yes, you may get laughs for the outrageous things you say or do, no matter how off color. But making jokes that disrespect others, especially jokes about things like abuse, is no laughing matter.<br />
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If the topic isn't one you'd laugh about around your grandmother, it's probably a very bad idea to post about it online. People may not believe you later when you say you were just joking.<br />
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When you do post something online, for better or worse, it's out there, potentially forever. The disgusting tweets that cost Gunn his job were posted many years ago, but even a decade later and public apologies, they came back. It doesn't matter whether you said something last week, last year, or thirty years in the past, if you said it publicly, it can hurt you.<br />
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I reminded my kids that every photo they share, every line the tweet, and even every meme they forward could have consequences when they are older, so take their time and think things out before engaging online.<br />
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We enjoy the freedom of speech in America, which means that to a large extent, we are legally allowed to say whatever we want. But that does not mean, in any way, that the things we say will not come with consequences.<br />
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Our kids may not grow up to be famous, but there are plenty of ordinary people who have faced consequences similar to those of Roseanne Barr and James Gunn. They've lost their livelihood because the things they've said have caught up with them.<br />
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Everything you say in public potentially reflects not only on you, but also on your employer, your university, your church, your family, etc. Employers, especially, are likely to take action to protect their reputation if their connection with you could make them look bad in the public eye.<br />
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When the boom falls on a celebrity, it may look like there is no such thing as redemption. An angry public can seem like a giant lynch mob, set to destroy an offender. Society does sometimes accept remorse and will offer reconciliation for the repentant, though it can take time.<br />
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What is always true, however, is that God offers redemption. Whether you've said something stupid and offensive online, or commited a truly awful crime, there is hope. I personally put faith in the idea that "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." <i>Romans 5:8 </i><br />
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<br />Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-91784804419135324732018-07-18T10:35:00.000-05:002018-07-18T10:35:04.626-05:00How to turn being ghosted into a positive experienceIf you or your kids have not yet been ghosted, I'm sorry to say it is likely to happen. Life is a series of relationships, some lasting forever and others ending, in partings both good and bad. Ghosting is one of the most cowardly and disgusting ways a person can end a relationship, and it is a growing problem in today's society.<br>
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As I am sure most of you already know, ghosting is the act of pretending someone you had a relationship with no longer exists. Texts and messages are left unanswered, calls are ignored, and the rudest of ghosters may even turn their back and pretend not to see their former companion when they run into each other in public. </div>
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All of this happens with no explanation, too often leaving the ghosted party feeling confused, insecure and betrayed. It's okay. Those are pretty normal reactions to being ghosted. It's what you do after the shock wears off that determines whether the whole situation will turn out to be a positive experience for you.</div>
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You can't prevent someone from ghosting you or your kids, but you can grow, you can become a stronger person and you can use what you learn to form better relationships with others in the future. Here are some ways you can turn being ghosted into a positive experience after it is all said and done.<br>
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Last year, as my twins were getting ready to take their practice run at the PSAT, I suddenly realized they did not have the proper ID <a href="https://collegereadiness.collegeboard.org/psat-nmsqt-psat-10/taking-the-tests/home-schooled">as required by the College Board</a>. Since they were taking the test early, ahead of their junior year, neither of them had a driver's license or learner's permit yet, and we'd never had an occasion to get them a passport.<br />
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The College Board requires a government-issued photo ID in order to take the test. The homeschool identification cards many families use will not work, nor will their Social Security cards or even their birth certificates. There is a form on the site you can use in lieu of the required ID, but it must be notarized, so plan ahead.<br />
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Bring two sharpened number 2 pencils with good erasers. Don't bring pens, colored pencils, or any other types of writing devices.<br />
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The College Board has a list of approved calculators. On the list are several graphing calculators and scientific calculators. If your student does not already have a graphing calculator, and will not need one in the near future, you may opt for a scientific calculator instead. These are a small fraction of the price of the approved graphing calculators, and will be adequate for most problems on the test.<br />
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If you are getting your child a new calculator, particularly a graphing calculator, for the test, make sure they know how to use it. Don't wait until a couple of days before the test to have them try it out. Graphing calculators are complicated, and it takes time to learn all the functions.<br />
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If your child has not memorized their own Social Security number, make sure it is written down for them. I suggest writing it in Sharpie on the back of their calculator. You can remove the ink with rubbing alcohol after the test is over, and your child won't have to keep up with a piece of paper with their sensitive information on it.<br />
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Your child should wear comfy clothes on the day of the test, because they will be sitting in the testing room for up to four hours with minimal breaks. Because you have no way to know how warm or cold the room will be, layers are a good idea, with a sweater that they can take off or slip back on as needed.<br />
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According to the College Board site, students do not need special permission to bring their EpiPen into the testing area, but it may be a good idea to inform the test coordinator or proctor if you have one, in case they need to administer it to you in an emergency.<br />
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Anything else you might bring into the testing area, including other medications, food or drink, or anything not on this list would have to be approved with special accommodations by the College Board. You need to contact them as early as possible to request accomodations if needed.<br />
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Don't forget, the PSAT is administered in October each year. If your student will be a junior this fall, this is the year that it counts. If they miss the exam date, they will not be able to make it up later. Younger students can <a href="https://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2017/10/taking-practice-run-at-psat.html">take a practice run at the PSAT</a> ahead of their junior year, but all students who wish to take the test should <a href="https://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2018/07/how-to-sign-up-for-psat.html">register early at a nearby school</a>.<br />
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<br />Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-65558087539088201712018-07-16T10:23:00.000-05:002018-07-16T10:39:18.326-05:00How to sign up for the PSATIf you are a homeschooler, signing up for the PSAT is more complicated than if you were enrolled in public school. According to the <a href="https://collegereadiness.collegeboard.org/psat-nmsqt-psat-10/taking-the-tests/home-schooled">College Board website</a>, homeschooled students need to reach out to a local school to register to take the PSAT in the fall, and the recommend doing so four months in advance.<br />
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The PSAT is administered at many public and private schools, and you can do a search on the College Board site to find locations near you. Not every site listed will have space available to take homeschooled students, especially as the testing date in early October draws near, so make contact as early as you can. Do not wait until the end of September and expect to secure a spot, as test coordinators have to order their materials in advance.<br />
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The PSAT is an important test for college bound students to take, and unlike other exams such as the SAT and ACT, it is only given in October each year. The PSAT is used to determine eligibility for the National Merit Scholarship, and a good score can also open the door to hundreds of other scholarships associated with the test.<br />
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The only time the PSAT actually counts is when taken during a student's junior year, and if they miss that date, they won't be able to make it up later. Students can <a href="http://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2017/10/taking-practice-run-at-psat.html">take a practice run at the PSAT</a> ahead of their junior year, though, and since they have nothing to lose by doing so, I would definitely recommend it.<br />
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Coming up next on the blog... <a href="https://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2018/07/what-to-take-with-you-to-psat.html">what to take with you to the PSAT</a>. There's one item lots of parents forget, and you can't take the test without it! Do you know what's on the list?<br />
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It got my attention, such that I actually hit pause on the TV remote and asked what he meant.<br>
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"I can't balance on a soccer ball," he replied, noting the stunt the actor on the commercial had performed. "I don't know how they can do those things, but I can't. And don't even say I could if I practiced really hard. I know what you're thinking."<br>
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He was right. I have always had a strong tendency to believe that you can do anything you put your mind to, and that with enough hard work and practice comes success. And even though I know that there are exceptions, I've always really come down firmly on the side of, "If I can do it, you can, too."<br>
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It seems like such a positive affirmation, but is there a problem with the idea of, "If I can do it, you can, too," especially when it comes to homeschooling? What if you or your child genuinely can't?<br>
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Here's the thing. I was the type of student to whom most subjects always came pretty easily. With the exception of foreign languages, which were difficult because of a hearing impairment, learning things in school was as simple as paying attention and reading the required material. It just sunk in. And learning things as an adult has been just about the same.<br>
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But the problem is that if learning comes too easily, you might assume that it should be easy for others, too. If you can do it, they should be able to, too, right? Well, maybe or maybe not.<br>
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Having grown up going to public school, I was really trapped in the mindset that I needed to buy all the supplies on the back to school list to have a successful year. It's just not true. Homeschoolers aren't likely to need new scissors, rulers, school boxes and backpacks each year. Markers and colored pencils can last longer than a year if they are cared for well.<br>
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Experienced homeschoolers know it is easy to whittle down that list, saving big time on the supplies we need - and only the supplies we need - while skipping the superfluous purchases that might otherwise drain our wallets. Here are a bunch of my favorite money-saving tips, along with a few splurges you might want to consider.<br>
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A couple of years ago, a homeschooling friend of mine in Louisiana lost practically everything in the floods that inundated her town. Her daughter, an avid reader, truly mourned the loss of her books. It was heartbreaking to see the devastation. A while later I lost a whole shelf of homeschool books in a much smaller disaster involving a leaking pipe in the wall behind one of my bookshelves.<br />
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The thing we had in common was insurance. Thankfully our homeowner's insurance helped me to replace my kids' books quickly and easily. All I had to do was show the adjustor the damaged items, along with proof of their value, and he added those to our settlement.<br />
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Most homeowners today are required to have insurance, and although not all policies pay for all types of disasters, this is the absolute first and best thing you can do to protect your homeschool supplies.<br />
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If you are a renter, the decision whether to get insurance is usually left up to you, and unfortunately, many renters choose to forego this small expense and take the risk. I suggest you consider how much you have invested, not only in your books and other homeschool supplies, but everything else in your home. The cost of renter's insurance is so small compared to the cost of replacing everything in the case of a disaster. Don't let your failure to plan ahead become your family's great regret.<br />
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If you are the victim of a large disaster, such as a flood, hurricane, tornado, major earthquake, wildfire or similar situation, you may be entitled to help from government agencies. In addition to assistance from agencies like FEMA, the federal government offers tax assistance to those who qualify through the <a href="https://www.benefits.gov/benefits/benefit-details/936">Benefits.gov website</a>.<br />
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Members of your own local community may be eager to help you get back on your feet if you are the victim of a singular disaster such as a house fire, sink hole, or major theft. Don't hesitate to reach out to charitable organizations in your town or your state. Be flexible if you can, but be specific about the materials that were lost if you find folks who are willing to help you replace them with identical items.<br />
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No one knows your needs quite like other homeschoolers, and many homeschoolers give generously in times of disaster. Check with the HSLDA charitable branch, <a href="https://www.homeschoolfoundation.org/">The Homeschool Foundation</a> to see if they might be able to help. Also, contact your state homeschool organization to see if they have a charitable outreach, or know churches or other organizations that offer help in your area. And definitely put the word out in your local homeschool group or co-op, in case other members might have usable materials they would like to pass your way.<br />
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You may be able to get help from publishers of certain homeschool curricula if you reach out and let them know your situation, but please understand if they are unable to help. Let me explain this the best I can, because I have seen many recent comments online accusing publishers and distributors of greed or heartlessness because they were unable to replace lost materials after a disaster.<br />
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I am a publisher of homeschool books and materials, such as <a href="https://amzn.to/2L28ZNE">The Unplanner</a> and <a href="https://www.learningtangent.com/shop/periodic-table-matching-game/">The Periodic Table Matching Game</a>. I price my products very low, to pass savings to you. But if you bought a copy of The Unplanner from me, and it burned up in a fire or molded in a flood, I couldn't replace it or even give you a significant discount without paying for that out of my own pocket. That's because the profit I get from each paperback book is just a tiny percentage. So as much as I would love to help, I could not afford to do that, especially if I got multiple requests per year.<br />
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Book publishers, and even popular distributors like Christian Book Distributors, would face significant financial strain if they replaced physical copies of books and resources for every homeschooler who wrote to them with such a request.<br />
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Now, if you could show me that you had purchased an e-book or downloadable, I would be much more able to replace that resource than something in print. That would cost me time, but not much in the way of money, and that's something I can more easily afford as a small publisher.<br />
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So if you make a request for assistance, be grateful for anything the publisher or distributor can give, and please be understanding if they cannot. Remember, if just 100 people per year made requests with an average cost $500 from a large company like Christian Book Distributors, that would add up to $50,000. That's enough to pay at least one worker for a whole year! If 1000 people made similar requests, that would add up to half a million dollars. That's a huge chunk of a company's bottom line. Don't run down a publisher or distributor, threaten to boycott or spam them, or question their Christianity because they aren't running their business as a non-profit charity.Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-89409484094446607062018-06-26T12:35:00.000-05:002018-06-26T12:41:21.419-05:00On the renaming of the Laura Ingalls Wilder AwardThis week brought the greatest controversy I have witnessed in the homeschool community since I started homeschooling nearly a decade ago. I am talking about the renaming of the Laura Ingalls Wilder award by the Association for Library Service to Children. The award is now named the Children's Literature Legacy Award, a title that the association feels better represents "<a href="http://and%20its%20core%20values%20of%20inclusiveness%2C%20integrity%20and%20respect/">its core values of inclusiveness, integrity and respect</a>."
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There was a lot of hysteria following the ALSC's announcement, including outrage that libraries would be pulling Wilder's books off the shelves, or that the edtions would be edited, or even that all books with a historical point of view that did not fit with today's values would be destroyed. While we should indeed resist a <i>Fahrenheit 451</i>-style world, I don't think that the renaming of this award merited so much panic.<br />
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To be clear, I DO NOT believe in editing the work of historic authors to fit modern sensibilities - which is not what happened here. I believe that an author's work should stand as written unless they edit it themselves, on their own, before they die. We cannot and should not change the authentic voices of those who came before us, even if we disagree with what they had to say.<br />
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But I DO believe that when you know better, you should do better. And today, we know it is NOT okay to characterize Native Americans as non-people, for example. So maybe continuing to glorify an author who did so, by handing out annual awards named in her honor, is not the best example we can set for future generations.
I agree with the decision to rename the award.<br />
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Our public libraries are, and should be, among the most inclusive and accessible entities in our society, and this award given to authors who have made "a significant and lasting contribution to children's literature" should reflect the values of inclusivity and respect.<br />
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The decision to change the name of the award was respectful and inclusive to many, many readers, like my own kids who are Native American children and were uncomfortable and confused by Wilder's characterizations of minorities. It leaves her work and the honor she received by being the first recipient of the award intact, but changes the award to be better for the future. It was a positive step for all.
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The more you know about the elements of the periodic table, and how they relate to YOU, the better they will stick in your long term memory. A while back, I shared a favorite book, <a href="http://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2017/09/getting-to-know-elements-of-periodic.html">The Periodic Table: Elements with Style</a>, that personifies the elements in ways that can help students get to know them better.<br />
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This week, I want to share another resource, the <a href="https://www.learningtangent.com/shop/periodic-table-matching-game/">Periodic Table Matching Game</a> by The Unplanned Homeschooler, currently on sale through the Learning Tangent marketplace for just $2.99.<br />
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This fun game is reminiscent of the classic Memory games we all played as kids, but uses real world enformation and colorful illustrations by Keith Enevoldson, an engineer who had me swooning at the concise and colorful way he made the periodic table so relatable.<br />
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Study by groups or periods, study just the nonmetals, the transition metals, the noble gases, etc. There are so many ways to study the periodic table using this exciting game. Make chemistry more fun and memorable by adding the <a href="http://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/p/store.html#!/Periodic-Table-Matching-Game/p/108873914/category=0">Periodic Table Matching Game</a> to your collection of resources.<br />
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<br />Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-39630843657412896232018-06-14T21:34:00.000-05:002018-06-14T21:34:46.723-05:00The Unplanner, 2018-2019 is available now!Are you still searching for the perfect homeschool organizer for your family? Well, great news! This year's edition of The Unplanner is <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1721083103">now available on Amazon</a> for just $7.99.<br />
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If you are looking for a professionally bound homeschool organizer that is affordable, easy-to-use, and has attendance sheets for up to six students, you'll want to check out The Unplanner. There are lots of homeschool planners on the market, but The Unplanner is different, because it has just the pages you need, and none of the ones you don't, so you won't feel pressured by an overwhelming amount of blanks. And best of all, you won't have to print and bind your own pages to get the organizer you want!<br />
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Here's a sample pic of pages from The Unplanner. Printed in a 6 by 9 inch format, with a beautiful, glossy cover, this organizer is easy to carry with you wherever you go, or tuck in a cubby or on a shelf with your other homeschooling materials.<br />
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In <a href="http://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2018/06/ive-been-doing-things-that-make-me-happy.html">my last post</a>, I mentioned that I had been doing all sorts of things that made me happy this spring. Most of them involved dirty and exhausting work, like rebuilding a deck, cleaning up flower beds, planting flowers and power washing just about everything my hose could reach.<br />
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I literally ruined clothes over the past few weeks with layers of sweat, grime, grease, deck stain and even blood, but the work was so fulfilling, because I was doing things I couldn't physically do a year ago, before I made my own wellness a priority.<br />
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What I didn't tell you in my last post was that for the last several years I have been dealing with excruciating pain on an almost daily basis. Last spring, it got so bad that I couldn't even pick up a textbook with one hand, or drive an hour from home without pillows propped under my elbows. I was suffering from psoriatic arthritis and even teaching was a challenge because of all the pain in my joints.<br />
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Like so many homeschooling moms, I wasn't doing a very good job of taking care of my own needs. My focus was on my family, but my pain was making it impossible to do my daily chores, teach lessons or even have fun with my kids. I couldn't put it off any longer. I had to find a doctor who was able to help me. </div>
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Now, thanks to some pretty effective medication and months of physical training, I am stronger than I have been since my youngest was born, and that was ten years ago. Even better, with proper treatment, I am probably preventing additional damage to my joints and helping to preserve my future health the best way I can. <br />
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I am embarrassed that I let things get so bad before I got help for my arthritis pain. I knew, though, that this message was one of the first things I wanted to share once I got back online. We absolutely have to take care of ourselves and make our own wellness a priority.<br />
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Homeschooling takes so much dedication, it is easy to lose yourself as you tend to the tasks of planning and executing your children's education all while managing everything else that typical parents do. But the ten, fifteen, twenty or more years that a homeschooling mom might devote is too long to spend ignoring our health and well-being.</div>
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I have to say, I am so much happier and healthier than I was last year. I wish I had not waited so long to see a new doctor, or to try medication that I had honestly been afraid to take. It's been a game changer, with, thnkfully, little to nothing in the way of side effects. </div>
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If you are feeling tired, worn down or in physical or emotional pain, please consider taking some time to address your health. The time you spend focusing on your own well-being is so well spent. You may think you are too busy, with your school schedule and taking care of your kids and your home, but a healthier you can accomplish so much more. Invest your time in feeling better, and make yourself a priority today!</div>
Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-91798106798421988622018-06-12T07:00:00.000-05:002018-06-12T07:00:07.171-05:00I've been doing the things that make me happy!I took some time off this year, from the things that probably should have been on the front burners, to catch up with things I needed, or simply wanted to do. I let my blog go dormant for a few months, and I took several weeks off from school. I even quit cooking altogether for a while. <div>
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I planted flowers. Lots of flowers, in baskets and pots and in flower beds that had been neglected so long I had to practically dig them up and start from scratch. </div>
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I borrowed my mom's power washer and I washed all the things! If you haven't tried power washing, you should. It's addictive. I think, especially so for we mom types, whose work never stays done for long. It's so unlike laundry mountain, which just piles right back up the minute you get it knocked down. You can actually see the results of your efforts, and they are dramatic and beautiful, and last long enough for you to appreciate for a while.</div>
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I helped my dad and my son rebuild my deck, adding new railing and staining the freshly power washed boards that turned out to be a lovely light color, and not dark gray after all. </div>
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The kids and I dug a hole, and not just any hole, but a huge rectangular crater in a rock-infested slope, 18 feet wide and deep enough to create a nice level space for the above ground pool we intend to enjoy all summer long.</div>
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I probably lost readers during my hiatus, and I know I missed out on opportunities to speak. I was so late in putting together this year's Unplanner, I don't know if I will end up selling a single copy by the time it hits Amazon later this week. And do you know what? I don't even care.</div>
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I don't care that we "fell behind" and will be doing school through most of the summer, either, because I had so much fun through the spring. Besides, we're all pretty relaxed now that we're back to a somewhat normal class schedule, and after school, we can go jump in the pool!</div>
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Everything I did these last six months makes me happy. I'm loving my clean driveway and my fresh and welcoming deck. The flowers I worked so hard on lift my spirits every time I see a new bloom. And floating in my little backyard oasis, looking up into the trees takes me away from it all. I didn't know my life needed these things, but I'm sure glad I took some time off to make them happen.</div>
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There are 52 weeks in a year; not all of them have to be dedicated to school and housework. Homeschooling is a marathon, not a sprint to the finish. I think we need to take time for ourselves along the way, even weeks at a time if that's what we need. </div>
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You don't have to go dig in the dirt like I did, but do something that will make you happy, and that will have lasting results that you can savor over the weeks and months to come. You'll be glad you did.</div>
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There are so many lessons for middle schoolers to learn, and during this month-long series parents will receive a wealth of knowledge from many homeschool bloggers. You may find advice to help with teaching math, or science, or foreign languages. You may learn more about strengthening your child's faith.<br />
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But as I thought about what I would choose to share, I kept coming back to the realization that middle schoolers are at perhaps the most vulnerable age, in the middle of some of their toughest growing-up years, and what they need, more than anything, is connection; to know without a doubt that they are loved.<br />
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Hop over to <a href="http://www.yearroundhomeschooling.com/important-things-your-middle-schooler-needs-to-know/">Year Round Homeschooling</a> to read my post, and read more about how you can shore up your middle school kids and give them the strong emotional foundation they will need as they move oh so rapidly toward adulthood.Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-72497215421567497862017-10-17T08:00:00.000-05:002017-10-18T04:17:14.377-05:00The responsibilities of the homeschooled studentOver the years, I have had more heart-to-heart conversations with my kids than I can count, and many of those have been about our roles as homeschoolers. So many of us tend to focus on our own responsibilities, as educators, and largely forget to teach our kids about their own responsibilities, as students.<br />
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When our kids grow up, they will face expectations both in their family life and in the workplace. We have to train them to accept their responsibilities as students with diligence and grace, to treat others - including us - with respect, and to focus on their goals.<br />
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In essence, a homeschooled student's responsibilities come down to five points, illustrated in this infographic. If they can successfully manage these five skills, they'll be better equipped to learn any subject and take on any adventures that life sends their way.<br />
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Are you raising a child who tends to personify everything? I was one of those kids. I remember with almost embarrassing clarity one boring afternoon in my preteen years when I determined the gender of the numbers 0 - 9. For whatever reason, 2, 3, 5, 7, 8 and 0 were boys, and 1, 4, 6, and 9 were girls. <br />
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I'd like to say with authority that there is strong scientific evidence that associates this sort of behavior with creative genius, but that would require scouring psychological journals. Speaking simply from experience though, I can say that my own tendency to personify things helped me to learn, especially when it came to science.<br />
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I assigned personalities to everything from different species of animals to various types of bacteria and even the elements of the periodic table in my mind. I think that's why I was so excited to find a complete set of the Basher Science books at a secondhand store a few years ago.<br />
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One of the Basher books is called <a href="http://amzn.to/2xZrXBm">The Periodic Table: Elements with Style</a>, and it allows readers to meet and get to know the personified elements, complete with characteristics you would expect based on how they appear and react in nature. Sodium, for instance, gets along with everyone but is really high strung, sulfur is a prankster dressed sweetly in yellow, and iron is "at the center of everything."</div>
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Imagine my excitement when I realized, after recommending the book to our local co-op class, that there is a newer version, with more elements, each with its own descriptive page! It's titled, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0753471973/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=twebytav-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0753471973&linkId=a66a12cb0d8ca809a983fc5fb595e85f">The Complete Periodic Table: More Elements with Style</a>. <br />
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Associating human characteristics with inanimate objects really has been a good way for me to learn and retain information over time. I believe the Basher Science books about the periodic table can help cement this information in your child's long term memory, too!<br />
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Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6302939128724361267.post-17192800760436794382017-09-21T07:00:00.000-05:002017-09-21T07:00:24.588-05:00Spark a positive change in the world<div>
For all the negative imagery we see on the news and in social media, I really don't believe the world is falling apart. I don't believe we're on the brink of a race war, or that most men are out to victimize women, or much of anything the media might have us believe about our fellow human beings for the sake of ratings. I believe that at the heart of it, there is more that unites people than divides them, and if we could all just try to treat each other the way we'd want our kids, or our grandmothers to be treated, the world would be a much better place. </div>
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But it's hard to get away from those constant messages of division and hate. </div>
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Homeschoolers can live somewhat sheltered lives, it's true. Their circle of interaction is typically smaller than the hundreds of peers other kids pass in the halls of a public school And in many families, their exposure to social media is more closely monitored. We can choose to minimize their exposure to the constant stream of negativity, and instead emphasize the good in the world.<br><br>That's why I think homeschoolers, in particular, have a tremendous opportunity to change the world. All it takes is a little spark.<div>
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One of the lessons I am working hard to teach my kids is kindness. I've noticed that they go out of their way to hold doors for others. They offer to carry things for people, or pick up dropped objects. These little things may seem ordinary, and used to be thought of as just good manners, but consideration for others is a learned behavior. </div>
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I've been working to teach my kids, both through discussion and example, what a difference a kind word can make. Yesterday, while my mom and I were sitting in a waiting room at the cancer treatment center, I noticed the elderly black man with the furrowed brow sitting across from me. He had taken three or four deep breaths in a row, letting each one out in a slow sigh. I didn't know if he was worried or just uncomfortable. Then I noticed his shoes.</div></div><a href="https://www.unplannedhomeschooler.com/2017/09/spark-positive-change-in-world.html#more">Read more »</a>Tavia Fuller Armstronghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14873288786081010261noreply@blogger.com0